What finally struck me are the different elements in our music choices. Generally speaking, mine tend to have strong melodies and lyrics, his strong rhythmic elements. He has many more instrumental pieces than I do.
I'm a singer. I am drawn to music that I can sing. I will often purchase cover versions of songs that are in my range rather than originals. (
Brian is a dancer. Sometimes he will hear a piece of popular music and comment "Hey, that's a tango!" I will sometime ask him -- "what sort of dance is that music?" He thinks about music in terms of rhythm and movement.
I'm not sure what this says about us, but I think it is interesting.